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Does your partner have a wandering eye, and gaze at other people while with you? First, it is natural for humans to appreciate beauty in all forms. Just as you might look at a stunning sunset, or a picturesque beach, you can appreciate the beauty of an attractive man or woman.

The question is does your partner appreciate your exceptional qualities more than that person, and if he/she shows this admiration. If your mate is always staring at other people, but rarely compliments you on your own qualities, it is time to resolve this. Sit down and talk about why this happens. If your partner neglects you in favor of spending time with others, it is time to talk with him/her. A partner should respect the mate over others; the mate should always come first.

If you are feeling neglected or overlooked, sit down and talk about this with your partner. You need to be realistic about how needy you are, but you also need your partner to respect you.

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Resolving conflict is to always keep your eye on the prize. Never lose sight of your goal. We want a certain outcome but our behavior ensures we will get the exact opposite. For example: Pretend you want your partner to spend more time with you. There are several things you could do to increase the chances of this happening. Some of these include:

Plan a romantic weekend away as a surprise or a romantic dinner. However, instead of working in a logical fashion to achieve the goal, emotions tend to take over. This leads to behaviors that move you away from getting what you want. If you don't keep your goal in mind, you are more likely to:

Scream, blame, order or scorn your partner for not spending time with you. Refuse to ask for more time together because it doesn't "count" if you have to tell him/her what you want. Acts annoyed but deny that anything is wrong. Although conflict in relationships is inevitable, resolving conflict becomes much easier if you evaluate what you are trying to achieve. Then, compare your goal to your behavior. Are your actions helping you reach the desired outcome? If not, adjust your plan of action.

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Kim Kardashian's marriage is now the new topic for all the gossipmongers in Hollywood. The sexy reality star has started planning her nuptials after getting engaged to her NBA player beau, Kris Humphries.
According to PEOPLE, the bride-to-be is working out her marriage registry for her gift-hunting guests. So what's on her wish list?

Sophisticated and stylish marriage items like a Lalique Cactus Flacon, Havana ashtrays, Balcon du Guadalquivir plates by Hermes, a Tourbillon black vase, a Lalique Ingrid black vase, Ascutney glasses and many more such extravagant marriage items made it to the list.
Ms. Kardashian's marriage which is due later this summer will be covered by the whole media world. She has apparently signed a contract with the People's magazine and will receive over $1 million for exclusive marriage coverage.